Have you ever got something that you asked for and then realised that it was not quite how you imagined it would be?
Have you ever heard the expression “be careful what you wish for because you might get it”?
Recently, I wished for
- More time with my family
- Less traffic
- More time at home in my lovely new garden
- Peace and quiet
- Some time off to breathe
Guess what? I got everything I asked for and I felt SO guilty. I did not cause the current Covid-19 situation and neither did you but it reveals interesting layers around guilt and the fear of asking for what you want.
I missed the secret sauce for asking and manifesting. The secret sauce is in these 3 life-changing magical questions to ask yourself.
- What do I want?
- Why do I want it?
- What does it look like to me?
If figuring out what you want feels difficult, ask yourself what you DO NOT want and then focus on the opposite.
Get clarity on WHY you want what you want. Everyone’s why is different but if your big WHY does not make you cry, then it’s is not big enough. Keep asking yourself WHY do I want this until you genuinely cannot come up with any more reasons. Keep going until you get to a feeling of such joy and passion that if you don’t get what you want, you might explode.
Once you know what you want and why you want it, start visualising what it looks like. I wanted time with my family but not with us all squished in on top of each other with no escape.
I wanted less traffic on the roads but not because no one was allowed to go out and the fear of a checkpoint or being arrested.
I forgot to visualise and journal and get absolute and total clarity around what my goal actually looked like, felt like, smelled like and sounded like.
In the book, WE Summit Together, you can learn how I managed to get myself out debt and manifest a new life using this exact method.
Repeat after me – “It’s safe for me to ask for what I want. I know what I want, I know why I want it and I know what that looks like for me” and start visualising.
Let me know how you get on.
